The
core of every cinema is the projector, which casts a writer’s
contrived mental and emotional images onto the big screen. Analogously,
at the heart of human defensiveness is a projector, which casts onto
others one’s feelings, thoughts, and attitudes — contrived
mental and emotional images — to escape blame for insecurities,
anxieties, and failures.
Here
are two common examples of projection:
Example
#1: A man accuses women of being golddiggers — trading
sex for money — while he is wining & dining them for
sex. He’s angry at himself for lacking the courage and
skills to cease his pointless behavior but refuses to take responsibility
for it. Instead, he projects his autobiography and anxieties onto
others.
Example
#2: A woman blames men, her employer, and bureaucrats for
a gender-based wage gap because she is unhappy about her salary.
According to a comprehensive study commissioned by the US Department
of Labor, there
is no gender-based wage gap. In fact, this woman lacks
negotiation skills but won’t accept personal responsibility
for improving them. Instead, she projects her autobiography and anxieties
onto others.
If
one doesn’t like the images projected on the big screen, he can
choose not to view them. Likewise, if one doesn’t accept his friend’s
projection, he can reject it. But, when bureaucrats’ personal
projections become baseless and unconstitutional policies, laws, and
judicial rulings, voters must protest quickly or live with the consequences.
Team
Obama is, perhaps, the most-misandrist bunch ever running American government.
Few are familiar with the term misandry: hatred of men. Ask your friends;
you’ll get blank stares — because misandry is both accepted
and acceptable in our culture, as TV sitcoms and commercials
prove by endlessly featuring moronic husbands and fathers.
Employing
the anti-male projections of Vice President Joe Biden and almost-confirmed
US Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sototmayor, as well as his own, President
Barack Obama is operating a veritable misandry cineplex at the White
House.
Projectionist
Obama
Mr.
Obama was raised, for the most part, by his grandparents. Why? His mother
abandoned him. Yet, we hear only that his father abandoned him. Obama
has a lot of anger towards his father, and I sympathize — but
I shouldn’t have to suffer for it. When Obama projects his pain,
his autobiography, onto all men, he jeopardizes them. Four
examples:
•
In 2008 and 2009, Obama castigated men on Fathers’ Day for leaving
their pregnant unmarried girlfriends. Did he make a similar speech on
Mothers’ Day to vilify unmarried pregnant women? He did not. Roe
v. Wade, which Obama supports, says: it’s her body,
her baby, her choice. Yet, Obama blames men for women’s
choices.
•
Unconstitutional women-only section at Whitehouse.gov.
•
Fatherhood.gov
to teach men parenting, while Motherhood.gov is nonexistent (by giving
birth, women are fully equipped to be great mothers, right?).
Projectionist
Biden
Then-Senator
Joe Biden was instrumental in creating and passing the aforementioned
unconstitutional Violence Against Women Act in 1994, also known as VAWA.
It is unconstitutional because the US Constitution grants equal protection
for all, allowing no special provisions, rights, or protections for
women.
Biden’s
connection to domestic violence, and his resultant misandry, is rooted
in his childhood. Known as the “Father of VAWA,” Biden admitted,
on the record, that, as a boy, he sustained beatings from his older
sister but was prohibited from either defending himself or retaliating.
In the fall of 1990, before a US Senate Judiciary Committee hearing
on women and violence (Senate Hearing 101-939, Part 2), Joe Biden said
this:
In my house,
being raised with a sister and three brothers, there was absolute
— it was a nuclear sanction — if under any circumstances,
for any reason, no matter how justified, even self-defense,
if you ever touched our sister, literally, not figuratively,
literally. My sister, who is my best friend, my campaign manager,
my confidante, grew up with absolute impunity in our household.
And
I have the bruises to prove it. [laughter]
I
mean that sincerely. I am not exaggerating when I say that. An interesting
question, though: My wife and I, we have two grown sons who
understand that rule well. They also understand that rule relative
to one another. But we have a daughter who is 9, and it seems important
to me, and my wife thinks it is important, that she be told and educated
about what she should expect and accept as reasonable behavior.
People
at that Senate hearing laughed when Biden said he had the bruises
to prove his sister’s violence. Is that funny? Would anyone laugh
if a woman told the same story about her brother’s violence? This
is a sickness.
The
manifestation of growing up with a violent, abusive sister who enjoyed
absolute impunity is VAWA. Joe Biden believes, based on the hypocritical
rules and experiences in his childhood home, that:
•
Women are infallible, innocent victims
•
Women can hit men with impunity
•
Tolerating women’s abuse is proof of manhood
•
Men are presumed guilty when women accuse them of violence.
Finally,
we move to Judge Sonia Sotomayor, who has claimed
numerous times: “I would hope that a wise Latina
woman with the richness of her experiences would more often than not
reach a better conclusion than a white male who hasn’t lived that
life.”
To
“fool” the spineless Senate Judiciary Committee, in that
transparent circus called nomination “hearings,” Sotomayor
recanted her misandrist projection with impunity — and got their
nod.
The
judicial career of any male judge, having spoken analogous
words about women, would be over. Instead, Judge Sotomayor will spend
a lifetime at the US Supreme Court, where she’ll be in a powerful
position to wield her misandry. If she writes a majority opinion, her
dysfunctional projection, autobiography, and hangup with men will become
misandrist public policy and unconstitutional law.
They
Find It Funny
Misandry
exists in the streets, in entertainment, and in baseless and unconstitutional
public policies, laws, and adjudications. But, to appear macho, men
shrug it off. Don’t forget: Crystal Gail Mangum, the woman who
falsely accused three Duke lacrosse players of rape, still walks this
earth with impunity and freedom.
Not
only do most people not care about female-on-male violence, they find
it funny. TV reinforces that belief, as in this Saturday
Night Live
skit in which Katie Holmes repeatedly hits Will Farrell
in the testicles. Is anyone in the audience not laughing? How about
you? That’s why Obama’s Misandry Cineplex easily sells so
many tickets.
Let’s
turn the tables, to test the double standard. Let’s build Obama’s
Misogyny Cineplex and have Will Farrell hitting Katie Holmes in the
crotch. Could anyone at NBC suggest it without getting fired? Would
NBC air it? Would you be laughing at it? How about Obama? Biden? Sotomayor?
We’ll never see anyone projecting those images, will
we?
The
NoNonsense Bottom Line
Misandry
will not end until men and women take it as seriously as healthcare
and taxes. Perhaps when your father, brother, uncle, son, or friend
ends up in jail, like
David Woods in Sacramento, whose lunatic wife stabbed him,
then you’ll take it seriously and work to end it. In a country
that values men and the Constitution, the police would not
have arrested David Woods.
If,
though, you continue passively accepting the misandrist projections
of Obama, Biden, and Sotomayor — and plenty of other bureaucrats
— misandry will thrive in baseless and unconstitutional policies,
laws, and court decisions, and destroy more lives. Those are the consequences.
Obama’s
Misandry Cineplex exists because you keep standing in line
to buy tickets. Now, go project your image onto a mirror. Getting the
picture?
Marc
H. Rudov, The NoNonsense Man®, is a globally known radio/TV personality,
relationship coach, speaker, and author of 100+ articles and the books
Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without
Cash, Booze, or Jumper Cables (ISBN 9780974501727) and
The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed
in Romance on Planet Earth (ISBN 0974501719). The 2008
recipient of the National Coalition of Free Men’s “Award
for Excellence in Promoting Gender Fairness In The Media,” Mr.
Rudov is a frequent guest on Fox News Channel’s The O’Reilly
Factor and Your World with Neil Cavuto.
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